My Story

A bit about...

Carly Openshaw — Coach, DSL, Mum, and Calm Creator.

I’m a certified STILL Method coach working with both children and adults to manage anxiety and regulate big feelings - at home, in schools, and in systems that often overwhelm us.

But I’m not just a coach. I’m a mum who’s been there. I’ve lived the panic. I’ve sat on the floor with a child mid-meltdown. I’ve juggled single parenting, poor health, and the crushing pressure to “get it right.”

This work is personal. That’s why it’s powerful.

Qualifications & Professional Background

• Certified STILL Method Coach – Children + Adults
• DSL (Designated Safeguarding Lead)
• Certified • Safer Recruitment Trained
• Mental Health First Aid Qualified
• Degree in Sociology, Social Policy & Criminology
• HND in Health & Social Care
• 20+ years in children’s residential services, supported living, and care recruitment
• Founder of Tiny Tools for Big Feelings

I’ve worked across every side of the children’s care sector — from front-line roles in residential homes to senior-level safer recruitment. I understand the systems, the gaps, and how easily anxiety can spiral when we don’t feel seen.

Why I do this

• Because I’ve lived it - and I know tools that work.
• Because no child should feel lost in their own emotions.
• Because no parent should feel like they’re failing.
• Because calm can be created.